I recently discovered that my husband has been cheating. The betrayal cuts deep despite him taking care of me and our children. It all started when I posted on Facebook, expressing my love for him. Shockingly, his side chick also commented, referring to him as “my sweetheart.” At first, I smiled, but then she added me on Facebook and sent me a direct message, warning me to stay away from her man or face consequences.
I told her that the man she was seeing was my husband and the father of my children. She apologized, and strangely, we ended up becoming friends, chatting occasionally. She’s a single mother herself. I thought their relationship had ended, but to my dismay, I discovered they were still dating. I have evidence to prove it.
For months now, my husband hasn’t shown any interest in having sex with me. I find myself constantly begging for his touch, but he often insults me, accusing me of wanting sex too much. It hurts deeply, but I feel powerless. Should I cheat on him to satisfy my own needs?
I stumbled upon their chat where he expressed his love for her and praised her sexual prowess. It crushed me, and I couldn’t bear to confront him, so I blocked the girl on Facebook without saying anything to my husband. She even suggested he kick me and our kids out so she could take my place.
He cares for our children but he is a terrible husband. He seems to have no desire for me, yet he’s full of energy for this other woman. He has never satisfied me sexually. What should I do about my husband and his mistress? I don’t blame her entirely; my husband encourages her. I’m even contemplating cheating on him just to feel like a woman again and sending assassins to kill this lady that has become a thorn in my marriage. I’m tired of fighting him over other women. I’m sinking into depression.
