- A Nigerian woman, Chukwudi Mmesoma, has taken to social media to respond to the backlash she has been receiving from men over her posts discussing sex toys. Mmesoma, known for her candid and outspoken nature, did not hold back in addressing her critics.
In a series of Facebook posts, Mmesoma expressed her frustration with the negative comments she receives whenever she talks about sex toys. She wrote, “Every time I talk about sex toys, you will see men crying all over my comment sections.”
She questioned the insecurities of these men, asking, “What is your problem? If your sex game is fine, why will you be bothered by women replacing you with a sex toy?” Mmesoma emphasized that a man confident in his abilities should not feel threatened by a woman’s use of sex toys.
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Mmesoma continued to call out the men who criticize her, saying, “What are you scared of? Why are you crying? Carry your 2-minute self, with your small nta nta, and get out of my wall osiso.” Her blunt response highlights her irritation with the unwarranted criticism and reflects her unwillingness to tolerate negative comments on her social media page.
She elaborated further on her stance, noting that the source of such criticism often comes from men with low self-esteem. “This is always coming from men with very low self-esteem because why will a man be bothered about a sex toy that a woman is using if he is not feeling threatened?” Mmesoma’s sharp words challenge these men to reconsider their attitudes towards women’s choices and independence.
Mmesoma’s comments have sparked a wider discussion about gender dynamics, sexual autonomy, and the stigmatization of sex toys. Many women have come forward in support of her views, sharing their own experiences of facing similar criticisms and expressing their agreement with her perspective. Her posts have also ignited debates about the importance of self-confidence and the need for men to support rather than undermine women’s choices.
In concluding her message, Mmesoma reiterated her call for men to respect women’s choices and stop projecting their insecurities onto others. “Nwokem, zuzout of my wall,” she asserted, using a mix of English and Igbo to firmly tell the detractors to leave her space.
